This is not a biological or chemical analysis as what is great between a heart and brain, but an opinion from an experience of a person whom I know very closely since very long.
It goes like this(In his own words)…
“”” I always have been very happy every time I was biased to my brain to the heart. Every time I listen to my brain, I do take a logical and near perfect decisions.
When I was following my mind…my decisions were logical, my thinking was pure, my analysis and calculations were close to perfection, my observations and guesses were right (most of the times), my life was heading in a perfect path with futuristic approach towards the goals which I had set for myself since ages, my ethics and morals were very good, had a great family and a happy life.
I was investing in real estate, share market and other small businesses and was earning a reasonable amount apart from my regular job and was planning to do the big thing that I was planned since I was a child.
My analysis about any person was almost right, I used to avoid people with wrong intentions, wrong behavior and wrong character whenever I used my mind.
Then the day comes…when the HEART starts taking over mind…!!!
Initially it was collision between mind and heart, there will be a big fight between these two organs of my body…and at some point, heart wins over mind and that was the day my life has shifted into reverse gear and started falling in lightning speed into a deep dark sea.
They say in movies(from Hollywood to Bollywood) that you should listen to heart, but not your mind when it matters most, especially when you have to take a decision about a person.
But in reality…that’s the most foolish thing one can ever make.
When you listen to your heart, you won’t listen to your mind. When you ignore the mind, you start believing others blindly, you will believe whatever they say and will be trapped within no time, before you even realize the fact. By the time you realize, you will find yourself in a hell from where you can’t find a way to come out.
You will lose your hard earned money, lose your career, lose your investments, sell your properties, you will sell the shares for lose, lose all those investments you have made, you have take loans, depend on the mercy of banks… and finally you will find yourself in the middle of the see from where you don’t know how to get out.
You find yourself on a foot path standing alone where rest of the world is still going around you as usual. But you will be remain standing there lonely….like a mad person.
You won’t take right decisions, You won’t do right things, you won’t be knowing what you are doing at that time and you will be getting into deeper shit day by day.
The more you listen to heart… the more you suffer. whenever my mind wins I win, whenever my heart wins, I lose.
And one fine day you might realize the fact and you might know where you are standing…., but then, you find your heart bleeding as someone has shoved a sharp knife into it…the pain increases when you get to know that the knife was dipped in the honey.
Your heart will bleed more when it realizes that the mercy less people who shoved the honey dipped knife into your heart are never realized what they have done to your life.
The heart will bleed, bleed and bleed continuously……..the helpless MIND can’t do anything, but CRY silently looking at wounded HEART””””
—THE STORY NEVER ENDS —
My take : As they say in the movies and write in stories, one should listen to heart, but not mind. But this works only the opposite person also has a HEART.
My Take 