Misconceptions !!!

Misconceptions of and about a girl/woman!!!

people always misunderstand few things…especially when it comes to their own self and when it comes to a a girl/woman.

-> a girl always thinks her cunningness as smartness,
A guy’s smartness is always his cunningness.

-> When a girl cheats or betray a guy, she always has a valid excuse,
when a guy cheats a girl, he is just a cheater and betrayer.

-> when a girl tell lies, she is doing it for a cause or she always have a valid reasons to tell lies,
but when a guy tells a lie, he is a liar.

-> when a girl proposes sex, guy have to oblige it,
when a guy proposes for sex, he is a sex maniac.

-> when a girl has a sexual relationship, you show sympathy,
when a guy has a sexual relationship, he is a criminal.

-> when a girl getaway with something, it’s her smartness,
when a guy get away with something, just because the girl allowed you to or guy is incapable.

-> when a girl takes a revenge, you are supposed to take it,
when a guy doesn’t take a revenge, it’s just his inability to take it.

-> when a girl does a mistake, it’s her right and she always right,
when a guy does a mistake, it’s just not a mistake, but the biggest blunder the mankind has ever seen.

-> when a girl does something, she doesn’t have any other options, so she has to do it out of
compulsion or by force,
When a guy does it, he just does it intentionally or by choice.

-> if a girl being good to someone, she is the representative of Mother Mary reborn as Mother Theresea-II,
if a guy is being good to agirl, it’s just because of girl’s too good behavior and her charmingness.

-> if girl takes revenge, she always has a right and a reason for she will become a hero(ine),
If a guy takes revenge, he is a criminal.

-> When a guy talks bad about a girl, it’s rubbish,
when a guy talks bad about a girl, he must be really a bad guy.

-> when a girl proposes a guy, it’s the purest form of love that mankind has ever seen,
when a guy proposes a girl, it’s torturing her.

-> when a girl follows a guy, she is reborn as Juliet-II to just love, love and love you only,
when a guy follows a girl, he is just stalking her.

-> when a girl rejects you, she has every right,
when a guy rejects, he is or becomes impotent.

-> when a woman go for an extra marital affair, it’s just because of her husband is impotent or he
doesn’t know how to make her happy,
when a guy goes for extra marital affair, he is a sex maniac who doesn’t know the value of marriage,
family and a ethics less human being who doesn’t know the worth of goddess wife.

-> when a girl moves close with a guy, it’s just friendship, in fact the purest form of friendship,
when a guy moves close with a girl, he is trying to take disadvantage of friendship.

-> when a girl calls a guy, it’s just for a friendly talk,
when a guy calls a girl, he is harassing her.

-> a girl can say goodbye to a relationship at any time. It’s her right,
but a guy just can’t do that. it’s just cheating and betraying.

-> when a woman applies for a divorce, it’s guy’s fault. He has to go to jail for torturing wife, dowry
harassment and also has to pay big penalty in the form money and property to wife,
when a guy applies for a divorce, still it’s guy’s fault, still he has to go to jail for torturing wife, dowry
harassment and also has to pay big penalty in the form money and property to wife.

-> When a girl says something, it will become a 11th commandment,
when a guy says something, it’s just stupid talk.

-> A girl is always sensible, in fact the most sensible thing ever existed on this earth..err..in this universe,
A guy is always insensible, in fact the most insensible thing on ever existed in this universe.

-> A girl always debate,
A guy will always argue.

-> when a girl have ten boy friends, they are just friends,
when a guy have 2 girls as friends, they are his girl friends.

> when a girl have sex, it’s just because the guy asked or forced her to,
When a guy have sex, he must have been raped her.

-> girl can sext(texting/messaging sexually) a guy. It’s just fun,
When guys sext, he is just sending dirty messages.

-> when a girl does a mistake, it’s her innocence.
when a guy does a mistake, it’s his cunningness.

-> when a girl falls for a guy, guy has wooed her.
when a guy fall sfor a girl, she is the cutest thing in this world.

-> when a girl seduces you, she is innocent and a kid,
When guy seduces you, he is making sexual advances.

-> a girl/woman can love or sleep with then guys. It’s just because other nine guys are stupids.
when a guy love or sleeps with two girls, he will be portayed as a cheater/betrayer and a criminal in tv
channels and news papers.

-> when a girl looking at a guy, it’s just a casul a look
when a guy looking at a girl, it is sexual look.

-> when a girl wears revealing clothes, it’s fashion
when a guy forget to putup the top most button of his shirt, he is wierd.

-> when a girl talk to ten guys, she is very broadminded,
when a guy talk to two girls, he is narrow minded.

-> in short, a girl can’t do a mistake. She is programmed to not to do any mistake.
where as , a guy always do mistakes and born to harass woman!!!

The Love Saga – Nenu Chusina Oka Prema Kavyam !!!

When I am completely convinced and almost decided  that there is no such thing as ‘true love’ exists in this hypocratic,  opportunistic, cunning and crooked human race. To my astonishment, I came across these two wonderful people, who proved that there is still something called ‘true love’ exists on this world.

I wanted to tell this story since so many days, but kept it to my heart for some reason. But now I decided to tell this story in bits and pieces, if not entire.

Through my personal experiences and the people I came across, the stories I heard from my friends and things I got to know from known people made me fully convinced that there is no such thing as True love in this world(or may be in humans). Today’s love is… just an opportunity to enjoy for some people, a compulsion for some,  gifts for some and sex for some people…..as many reasons as one can find to get into love, but except true love.

And one fine day I got to see these two wonderful people from very close. They were my teammates at my office. Initially I never gave any importance to it, though I got to know that they are in love ( somehow I stopped believing in it). But day by day they made me believe in true love again with their commitment, behavior, passion and love for each other. I never cared so much about it initially, but gradually when I got to see some moments and after spending some time together, I started believing in their commitment. I did not do anything intentional, or favored in any special way to help them at the cost of other teammates, but I didn’t also became an hindrance for their love in any way.

Ok, I am hitting here and there till now leaving the main point. Let me back on the point.

I am not sure whether to disclose the names of these people. I do not want to create any kind of trouble for them by any means, so I am keeping their names with me as of now. But will tell few things.

Especially , I wanna talk about this guy. I have seen a true passion and TRUE commitment in him for his girl. He does so many things (which might look simple to many) for his girl, and try to keep her happy always. He takes care of that girl as she is a little kid. I feel amazing when I see all those things he does for her (I never told them about this). I donno whether that girl realizes completely the worth of the guy or the things that he does for her, but honestly…it’s this guy who made me re-believe in TRUE love( Hey girlie,..please don’t get angry on me for saying this). And it’s not only the guy, this girl also does so many cutest things for that guy.

People say so many things….so many good things and talk being nice and honest and talk every good(crap) to market themselves as very good human beings. But most of them…99% of the people ( there’s no mathematic calculation to arrive at this figure) are opportunistic, selfish and ugly people. People talk good till the time they get an opportunity to do bad, and when they do it, they come with a nice and popular excuse as “ we cannot survive in this world if can’t do this”. They put the blame on others and get away nicely. I say these people are Cowards!!!. Some people talk and do good things ( rather won’t do bad things) cause of fear, but not cause of they are good. People who might look good  and talk nice things around us are may not really be good. It’s just that they did not get an opportunity or they are afraid of something to do the things that they actually want to do. But they really are ugliest people.

So the whole point here is….This guy who I was talking about..…always try to keep his commitment whole heartedly, though het get many opportunities, though he get many chances. As far as I seen, He never does anything intentionally that may cause pain to the girl. Yes, they also fight lots of times and do all those silly and nonsense things as everyone does…but still above all of them…the passion they have for each, their commitment for each other, the unknown language I could see when they look into each other’s eye…the shyness of the guy when he talk  about her, the love I see in the eye’s of the girl when she complaints me about the guy about a silly fight they had… when I saw the feelings of the guy when he had to go away from her…

everything……

Things I can share now

Few things which I cannot share now

……everything

It’s all divine.

A spell bound love story…which I witnessed from so close.

Guys… thanks for being part of my life. May God keep you together always and prosper your life with loads of happiness, happiness and happiness only.

**You may become the second bestest and happiest couple on this earth. Go for it.

***Don’t ask who is first!!!

 

I Just Can’t Stop Loving You …!

I Just Can’t Stop Loving You”  —    My All Time Favourate Song…. !

A tribute to True Love by the greatest ever  Music Legend  Michael Jackson.

“I Just Want To Lay Next To You
For Awhile
You Look So Beautiful Tonight
Your Eyes Are So Lovely
Your Mouth Is So Sweet
A Lot Of People
Misunderstand Me
That’s Because They Don’t
Know Me At All
I Just Want To Touch You
And Hold You
I Need You
God I Need You
I Love You So Much

 

Each Time The Wind Blows
I Hear Your Voice So
I Call Your Name . . .
Whispers At Morning
Our Love Is Dawning
Heaven’s Glad You Came . . .

You Know How I Feel
This Thing Can’t Go Wrong
I’m So Proud To Say
I Love You
Your Love’s Got Me High
I Long To Get By
This Time Is Forever
Love Is The Answer

I Hear Your Voice Now
You Are My Choice Now
The Love You Bring
Heaven’s In My Heart
At Your Call
I Hear Harps,
And Angels Sing

You Know How I Feel
This Thing Can’t Go Wrong
I Can’t Live My Life
Without You

I Just Can’t Hold On

I Feel We Belong

My Life Ain’t Worth Living
If I Can’t Be With You

I Just Can’t Stop Loving You
I Just Can’t Stop Loving You
And If I Stop . . .
Then Tell Me Just What
Will I Do

‘Cause I Just Can’t Stop
Loving You

At Night When The
Stars Shine
I Pray In You I’ll Find
A Love So True . . .

When Morning Awakes Me
Will You Come And Take Me
I’ll Wait For You

You Know How I Feel
I Won’t Stop Until
I Hear Your Voice Saying
“I Do”

“I Do”
This Thing Can’t Go Wrong

This Feeling’s So Strong

Well, My Life Ain’t
Worth Living
If I Can’t Be With You
I Just Can’t Stop Loving You
I Just Can’t Stop Loving You
And If I Stop . . .
Then Tell Me, Just What
Will I Do

I Just Can’t Stop Loving You

We Can Change All The World
Tomorrow

We Can Sing Songs Of
Yesterday

I Can Say, Hey . . .Farewell
To Sorrow

This Is My Life And I,
Want To See You For Always
I Just Can’t Stop Loving You

No, Baby
Oh!
I Just Can’t Stop Loving You

If I Can’t Stop!

And If I Stop . . .

No

Oh! Oh! Oh . . .Oh . . .

What Will I Do? Uh . . .Ooh . . .
(Then Tell Me, Just What
Will I Do)

I Just Can’t Stop Loving You
Hee! Hee! Hee! Know I Do
Girl!

I Just Can’t Stop Loving You
You Know I Do
And If I Stop . . .

Then Tell Me, Just What
Will I Do

I Just Can’t Stop Loving You“

Degrading Morale Values

Recently there had been some acid attacks on two girls and the attackers were killed in a encounter(which was obviously faked). The whole incident was very disturbing.

Did we do the right thing by shooting the attackers??? Is it the right solution?? Did we eliminate the  root cause of the problem!!??? Can we assure that these kind of things won’t happen again?? Where are we living?? Under the TALIBAN rule!!??

No, No way….We just overreacted without even trying to find out the actual root cause of the problem. Whose fault was it?? Who are the
defaulters?? is it the guys, girls, their parents, or police??

India has always been known for it’s great culture, values, human relations, traditions and family system.

Today, the world has indeed become small… we can reach anywhere, any time. There is an exchange of culture is happening among different cultures. It is always appreciable if it is the ‘good’ that we share and adapt out of any culture. Unfortunately it is always that we get attracted to and catch the ‘bad’ very fast.

Infact, no system is ‘bad’. Every system evaluates with good values.It is we, the people, who err and hence defame the system. People very often say that “we are getting attracted to the western culture and are forgetting values and beliefs in our own system”…

I don’t think it’s true.

Instead, the unfortunate truth is that we are getting attracted and emulating the bad part of other cultures, while those people belonging to other cultures are admiring and adapting the ‘good’ part of our culture!!

Today’s generation have so many options to get  information, knowledge, entertainment. We have the TV, books, Movies, Cell phones and Internet. All these things have been invented for a good cause, but these facilities are being misused and manipulated by some people.

Today’s generation is being manipulated and falling a prey to some of these privileged facilities of this century. We should make sure that these systems are being used for the right cause. Who’s responsibility is this? Is it of the individuals, parents’ or the Government’s, Who’ll keep a close watch on this?? Though we make a hundred thousand laws to prevent the misuse of this facilities, people always commit mistakes!

Now coming to the acid attacks that happened recently…

 Boys and girls have been interacting much more than ever before. They have been studying together, working together, which is undoubtedly a right thing. But bad part of it is…. Guys and girls are developing some unacceptable relations out of these opportunities. They do anything and EVERYTHING in the name of friendship!! Unfortunately the term “FRIENDSHIP” is being misused and abused. Parents are also ignoring such things all in the name of being “Broad-minded” and “open”!! Over a period of time these relations are taking a violent mode and things like these acid attacks are happening. So many such incidents are going unnoticed as they are not so fatal. But such things are definitely creating so many problems in their personal lives. There is a huge outcry… we hold debates on popular news channels, stage dharna’s to say the most popular and sympathetic saying “stop violence against woman”. Would this stop such incidents in future.

These incidents occurred not because of any one incident, they have occurred and evaluated out of over a period of time and can’t stopped by killing defauleters like that. As the presinet of Loksatta party Mr Jayaprkash Narayan rightly said we’ll regret later for what we are doing now. We are creating an unacceptable culture rather than providing a solution.

We do not have to point at a ‘boy’ or ‘girl’. Most of the times there will be mistakes from both sides. I have personally seen girls(even
married women) flirting and doing things of all sorts with boys. The most unfortunate thing was that they were doing it with more than one guy at one point of time, which ultimately led to some unexpected and unfortunate incidents. Everyone of those involved have had to suffer because of the resulting incidents. College campuses, hostels and working places are becoming platforms for such things, where the people have full access to do such things. Movies and TV shows are only helping influence their behaviour.

I am not trying to point out girls only here. My point here is that mistakes are happening from both sides. Parents should keep a close
watch on such relations and strictly warn them whenever they feel that their kids are crossing that thin safety line between friendship and such unacceptable relations.

I read a question and answer column in a news paper recently. One guy was asking a question “Is it not the responsibility of parents to ask their children when they spend most of their time on the phone”?.  He asked this question pointing out girls, but I am more surprised at the editor’s answer..He said, “why should we question girls, why should we stop them spending unusual time on cell phones and chatting”. I felt very sad reading that answer, it’s not like that we should not allow them to talk or chat, yes definitely parents should be strict with children(both girls and boys) when they are spending more time on ‘cell phone’ and ‘chatting’. Should not parents ask their kids when they are going out for late night parties!!?? or should return a blind eye to it all in the name of ‘freedom’. These things will surely have adverse consequences on all of us…but it might be too late by then!

I think it is the responsibility of the individuals, parents, police, law and Governments to stop and prevent such incidents to reccur, but that would not mean killing people in fake encounters!

Let’s wake up and try evaluate a utopia, but not a Taliban rule!!